FAQ

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What is Fat Acceptance?

Fat Acceptance is the idea that fat people have the right to get on with their lives without having to lose weight first.  Fat acceptance recognizes that discriminating against fat people in the workplace, healthcare, and everyday life is unjust and wrong.   More info:

What’s this “HAES®” Thing?

“HAES” stands for “Health At Every Size®”, which is a registered trademark of the Association for Size Diversity and Health.  HAES® is about working to improve people’s health without focusing on their weight.  As chronicled in the recent book Health At Every Size by Linda Bacon, PhD, HAES® has been tested in against the traditional weight-loss approach to improving health in large women and demonstrated better & more lasting results.

Per ASDAH, the Health At Every Size® Principles are:

  1. Weight Inclusivity: Accept and respect the inherent diversity of body shapes and sizes and reject the idealizing or pathologizing of specific weights.
  2. Health Enhancement: Support health policies that improve and equalize access to information and services, and personal practices that improve human well-being, including attention to individual physical, economic, social, spiritual, emotional, and other needs.
  3. Respectful Care: Acknowledge our biases, and work to end weight discrimination, weight stigma, and weight bias. Provide information and services from an understanding that socio-economic status, race, gender, sexual orientation, age, and other identities impact weight stigma, and support environments that address these inequities.
  4. Eating for Well-being: Promote flexible, individualized eating based on hunger, satiety, nutritional needs, and pleasure, rather than any externally regulated eating plan focused on weight control.
  5. Life-Enhancing Movement: Support physical activities that allow people of all sizes, abilities, and interests to engage in enjoyable movement, to the degree that they choose.

Not all people who support Fat Acceptance support or practice HAES®, and vice versa.

But Isn’t Fat Is An Offensive Term?

Not necessarily.  It can be a neutral descriptor.  Using the term “fat” is a way to normalize it and make it less of an issue.   This is a common use within fat acceptance. I do use the term “obese” as well, to refer to the clinical definition of “obese”.

But You’re Trying To Lose Weight, Right?

Nope.  If you like, you can read about why I don’t diet and why I am not interested in weight-loss surgery.

But YOU Are Too Fat & Need To Lose Weight!

I want to tell the doctor my throat is swollen and inflamed and ask if it’s strep throat and actually get a throat culture or at least a look at my throat instead of a weight loss lecture. I want to tell the doctor I’m persistently fatigued and get tests for anemia and thyroid disease, not a suggestion of antidpressants and weight-loss surgery. I want employers to see my computer science degree and 15 years experience and ask me technical questions, not if I’ve considered going on The Biggest Loser.
I realize it’s a stretch to consider a fat person might actually be a human being, but that’s what I am. The problem is that many people figure fat people are just fat, not people.

I am what many, many people regard as “too fat”.  The biases about fat and health mean that I have to hunt for doctors who will not just tell me to go away until I lose weight.   It means that employers will often be less inclined to hire me than a thin person.   There are those who assume a 400lb person can’t walk or be loved or hold down a job. I realize it’s a stretch to consider a fat person might actually be a human being, but that’s what I am.   The problem is that many people figure fat people are not “really” people, or at least don’t deserve to be treated like people.

But Doesn’t Fat Impact Your Health?

Not necessarily.   Fat is often used as a shorthand for “sedentary”, and thin is often used as a shorthand for “healthy”.   However, research shows that:

  • There are researchers who propose that focusing on exercise and intuitive eating can be healthier than attempting to become thin. This approach is called “Health At Every Size” (HAES) and is described above.

This does not mean that every person who advocates fat acceptance is “healthy” (whatever that means) or advocates HAES or practices HAES.   It means that fatness doesn’t tell you whether someone is healthy or not.  Kind of like how someone who’s thin may not be healthy or not.

But Losing Weight Is Easy! So Lose Weight!

Every time I dieted I ended up fatter.   Not dieting means I don’t gain weight.  And it’s not just me.

“The majority of people — up to two thirds — regained all the weight they had lost, plus more … several studies indicated that dieting was actually a consistent predictor of future weight gain.” — UCLA

  • The body doesn’t know the difference between dieting and starvation; dieting can cause fatigue, depression, and is the primary precursor to eating disorders (PDF).

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results attr.Albert Einstein

But Diet Companies Would Fail If Diets Didn’t Work!

  • Diet programs benefit from the (often temporary) success of diets.  As noted in Medicare’s Search for Effective Obesity Treatments: Diets Are Not the Answer, most people diet to lose weight and then regain.  A significant subset then go on a new diet, regain, try another new diet, and so on.  Someone may do Weight Watchers, then NutriSystem, then Jenny Craig, then Weight Watchers again.  Who’s making money in this situation?
  • Ever notice how weight loss ads extolling how someone lost 40 or 50 or 60lbs will include a note “Results not typical”? There’s a reason for that.
  • New York Times reporter Gina Kolata wrote in Ultimate Fitness: The Quest for Truth about Health and Exercise that news agencies receive hundreds of press releases a week from diet programs, authors, and researchers.  Most have something to sell.  Weight loss is a terrific product to sell, because it’s so often temporary.

But You Post About Exercise!

Yes, I do exercise, but it’s for my own selfish reasons not weight loss or gain.  (And exercise doesn’t always cause weight loss anyway.)

But Where’s My Comment!

First-time comments go in the moderation queue.  Sometimes I’m not at the computer and it can take a while for me to approve them. I do moderate out comments that push weight-loss programs, weight-loss surgery, and general spam.  I also moderate out rudeness and general fat bashing.

Further Reading

Research:

Booklets: 

  • Active At Any Size, from the US National Institutes of Health (NIH) updated February 2010.

Blog Posts:

  • Shapely Prose FAQ.

Books:

Book Cover with link to Amazon

  • Lessons From The Fat-o-Sphere: Quit Dieting and Declare a Truce with Your Body by Kate Harding and Marianne Kirby Focused on how to start accepting your body the way it is and live a healthy, happy life now. Kate Harding -0- Marianne Kirby -o- Available from Amazon -0- My review is here.