From Dani Kelley’s “The body I have”:
I stopped eating in the eighth grade.
People complimented me on how much weight I was losing, how much prettier I looked, how much better I was.
They didn’t know something was wrong until I started passing out. And when my eating disorder finally came to light, it was largely seen as me going through a phase to be popular or noticed, much like with my cutting and suicide attempts.
Because, you know, depression and suicide and self-harm and eating disorders are only a phase.
From The Nearsighted Owl comes remakes of diet ads with fat-accepting messages:
And Closetpuritan has a thoughtful discussion of whether fat acceptance is a “denialist” movement.
Fat Acceptance proponents range from those who think that the link between fat and “obesity-related” diseases is overhyped and not looked at critically enough, to those who flat-out say that fat does not cause any diseases. (One problem with the latter statement is that just as correlation does not prove causation, it doesn’t disprove causation either; saying we don’t know for sure that fat causes* something does not mean that we know for sure it doesn’t cause something.)
You may guess from her parenthetical, and my including the parenthetical here, that I happen to agree that the link between fat and health is overhyped and not looked at critically enough. I also think that links between fat and health are questionable at lower sizes of fat (which are most fat people).
I do probably face greater health risks than someone of “normal weight”.
However: I do not think those risks make weight loss any easier or any more likely to last. There’s no proof that maintaining weight loss improves health in general (unlike quitting smoking or starting to exercise). And, finally, the pursuit of health is not an obligation we owe to the world for existing.
Living ~400lbs 
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