Living ~400lbs

I weigh about 400lbs. Sometimes 409, sometimes 397, usually in between.  Over the years I have encountered folks who talk about how “If you weigh over 300, you aren’t living, you’re just existing.”  Or  “being a bit overweight is okay, but if you weigh some huge amount, like 350 or 400 or 500lbs, well then there’s all these things you can’t do, like hold down a job…