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  • Ruby, The Rabbi’s Wife

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    Book: Fax me a Bagelby Sharon Kahn. Genre/Category: Amateur detective mostly operating amid her friends and frenemies at her local synagogue. Setup: Fortysomething widow Ruby Rothman is still known as “the Rabbi’s Wife” despite her husband’s death.  When Marla, the sister of her nemisis on the synagogue board, is murdered, Ruby’s friend Milt is suspected. Ruby tries to figure out what’s going on – and learns more…

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  • Other People’s Comments

    Me
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    My mother was always on the alert in public.  She was fat, after all.  People could see her.  She was braced for their reactions. At Denny’s, nodding at a stylish woman on the other side of the restaurant: “See how that one’s looking superior?   She’s watching me.” At Safeway: “No, we’re not buying Pop Tarts!” (sotto voce) “Everyone’s looking in the basket.” At my aunt’s at Christmas,…

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  • Importance of Sleep

    health, Mental health, Sleep
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    So far today I have: Woken up with a headache.  Repeatedly bumped into the bed while getting dressed.  Forgot my yoga bag when leaving for work.   Forgot to use my inhaler before going for a walk.    I am also feeling generally run down, achey, and lacking in patience/cope.  Also in monster need of a nap.   Am I sick?  No.  I didn’t get enough sleep…

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  • “Do the robes fit?”

    DayInTheLife
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    That was Elizabeth’s question about the Olympus women’s spa I went to Friday.   It’s a common question.   Over the years my general experience with day spas has been: Make appointment, usually for a massage. Arrive and check in. Be handed a robe that is too small and be directed to a locker room to change. I do understand the rationale.  Practically speaking: Your wallet, purse, coat,…

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  • …it was a good weekend.

    DayInTheLife, Me
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    Thursday: Terrific dinner with good company.  Then off to join friends for dessert and more good company. Friday: Joined a friend at a women’s spa with various hot tubs, cold pool, saunas, and so on. Saturday: Got my hair highlighted.  Then I dug out a velvet skirt, a satin tank top, and a shawl my grandmother made for a friend’s birthday party. Today: Visited a church this…

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  • Happy Thanksgiving…

    DayInTheLife
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    …to those of you in the US; a belated Happy Thanksgiving to those of you in Canada :)   The man of the house is cooking.  I’ve scrubbed the floors, put away, dusted, and so on. I hope everyone has something to be thankful for today :)

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  • Yoga Videos & Books I have known

    Books, yoga
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    I started doing yoga in college with Raquel Welch’s book on yoga.1 Even then I found yoga relaxing and energizing.  It also helped me improve my strength & flexibility. Years later I wanted to try yoga again, but, remembering how I’d had no idea how to modify some poses, I looked for something more tailored to my sort of body.  I’d read about the video Yoga for…

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  • Why I Should Go to Yoga Tonight…

    Exercise, Stress, yoga
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    … even though I’m probably going to want to skip it just on general “it’s my Monday I want to go home and collapse already” reasons. More than 1,000 studies have been conducted to determine whether yoga helps people suffering diseases. Here’s a sample from the medical literature: Depression: Patients diagnosed with depression showed significant reductions in anger, anxiety and neurotic symptoms after completing yoga classes, according…

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  • Day in the Life: Road Trip and Finding Clothing

    BeingSuperFat, Clothing, DayInTheLife
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    The man of the house was at a conference this weekend a couple hundred miles away.  On a whim, I hopped in my car Saturday morning to go surprise him.  Assuming I could spend the night, I’d packed an overnight bag: undies, socks, shirt, CPAP.  I could always wear my pants a second day, right? Oops. About 25 miles from my destination, going 70mph on the Interstate,…

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  • Big Fat Pleasures

    health, Mental health
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    “Sex is fun and pleasure is good for you” – I first read this in a book on relationships and thought that was a great idea … well, in theory at least.  Or maybe for other people.   I was fat, after all, so sex partners are hard to find, right?  And I still wasn’t all that sure I really deserve pleasure. That was over 10 years ago. …

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